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Joined: 7/1/2004
Posts: 12
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 3:31:57 PM
 
She's killing me for the longest 4 years. NENAVIGUUUUUUU.
She's like 75 years old. Always has somtn stinky and negative to say about me not being a good and attentive wife for Him. And don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to brag, however I'm the "the whole package": I'm 15 years yonger then my hubby. I cook, I clean, I knit and saw...I seat with my kids.I have a master degree in computer science- I work from home. I take care of myself... Ya dage vishivau krestikom."...
I don't pick up the phone when she calls, she leaves a very "warm" message, somtn like "Oh, hi sinochek. Znau...znau chto na rabote. Nu skolko mogno stolko rabotat?!!!.Oi.Oi..Oi Ya nadeus detki v poryadke...nakormleni..."
Shortly after our wedding, she said "well..each one of you (me and Him) could've found a much better partner for yourselves.
I mean...when I had my first child, she said "I will call him (baby) by your (mine) maiden name, cause he (baby) doesn't look anything like Him(my hubby)." I smiled, returned home and cried...
When I had my second son, she same to the hospital and after all "congratulations" part- said "I hope you won't have any more kids. It is so hard to ...raise'em" I cried after she left...
And that's only the tip of the iceberg of what I've heard and keep hearing from her.
I can't argue with her, she's too fuckn old. I'm always afraid, she would have a hard attack or somtn, if I tell her every fucking thing I think of her. Though, I can't deny the whole sweeet side of that perspective.
The only thing we fight about (me and Him) is HER. He says: "Mommy is too old...Don't pay attention" How can I not? There was not one meeting without her saying something nasty to me.
I never EVER had so much hatred for ANYONE in my entire life. And I actually LOVE my husband. I just don't understand why such great package has to come with such piece of sh..t like HER.
Joined: 11/17/2005
Posts: 348
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 3:39:46 PM
 
unbelievable.....
Joined: 5/26/2002
Posts: 8438
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 3:44:44 PM
 
гы-гы-гы, я бы тоже наверное была бы такои же свекровью. никто бы не был достаточно хорош для моеи деточки...
Joined: 1/26/2006
Posts: 34
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 3:45:21 PM
 
da eta potomu chto vi sovki ne kulturnie... v lubih zapadnih stranah, kogda ludiam >20 let, to ih roditeli uzhe v ih zhizn ne vmeshivautsa. a u vas navernoe i v 40 let budet "sinochek, a chto ti sevodnya kushal? ne boleesh? kak odevaeshsya?"
Joined: 2/26/2001
Posts: 3115
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 3:56:20 PM
 
I hope when the time comes you will be a much better mother-in-law.

it hard to know what to do in such situation, but if you can't live with it, try the oposite from what you are doing right now.
When you talk to her, hit on the points she cares about.
He don't work enough.
He doesn't care for the family enough.
He doesn't care for the mother enough.
The kids are smart, don't look like their father.
etc.

But the best thing is to let her be. she is 75, what else does she have?
Joined: 7/1/2004
Posts: 12
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 3:58:12 PM
 
tnx CEO
Joined: 12/30/2004
Posts: 20591
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 4:31:57 PM
 
Женицца надо на сироте
Joined: 1/8/2006
Posts: 1081
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:23:02 PM
 
да они все такие, только иногда попадаются нормальные. а особено если твой муж единственый сын тогда у тебя покоя небудет до того как она свои капыта не протянет.
I'm not trying to be mean but thats just the way it is with the only children, especially if it's a boy and was raised by his mother only. Don't let her get into your head, she 75 she will be gone soon... your hubby loves you?! and thats what matters at least she is not poisoning his mind about you........
Be positive and don't let it bother you ......wink
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Joined: 11/29/2001
Posts: 19959
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:23:22 PM
 
вы че в коммуналке живете с ней в одной комнате? терпимее надо быть, подумаешь иногда какую-то чепуху скажет....
Joined: 5/29/2004
Posts: 11995
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:30:56 PM
 
«вы че в коммуналке живете с ней в одной комнате? терпимее надо быть, подумаешь иногда какую-то чепуху скажет....»

причем тут коммуналка или нет? и в другой стране такая карга достанет...просто вижу из опыта моих родителей

но терпиней 100 пудово надо быть, ни в коем случае не показывай что тебя это задевает, держи невозмутимое лицо но и своих позиций не сдавай

займи себя все остальным кроме нее
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Last edited by Misska on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:31:00 PM
 
Joined: 11/15/2005
Posts: 6300
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:37:03 PM
 
скоро бабуся склеит ласты и ты будешь ее вспоминать с умилением
а пока думай почаще про наследство
Joined: 1/29/2006
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Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:40:02 PM
 
Misska ты гонишь мулю!
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Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:42:05 PM
 
«Misska ты гонишь мулю!»

а не пошел/а бы ты
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Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:51:38 PM
 
дай ей йaду
Joined: 5/29/2004
Posts: 11995
Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 5:52:27 PM
 
«дай ей йaду»

дык сразу ясно кто кого:)
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