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Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2002 9:29:00 PM
 
Once, couple years ago, i wanted the Car.
I saw it on some web site and it became my Dream.
I got over it in a couple of days. But the scar never healed :)
So i got myself less fancier, more available car.
Its nothing like the Dream one. But its fine, i even gave it a cute name.

Once, around 15 years ago, i got myself(f#@ing hormones :)
the Dream about Girl.
I never saw her i never knew her but couldn’t sleep for a couple of days. i got all weird around other girls.
Eventually i've learned to keep this Dream deep down
no, not my pants, my heart, i guess, would be a proper word here.

it is quite hard to fulfill your dream with 250,000$ Car
so, i guess, its almost impossible with Girl i've never met

so, now, i think, im quite OK with the idea to be with someone
who is definitely not my Dream but just some other beautiful
nice to people creature :)

But should i be? Damn, lord my witness, i dont want to
But what if this Dream is not real or im just fooling myself?
Human being is a social creature, it does not want to be alone.
Joined: 9/3/2001
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Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2002 10:58:00 PM
 
Мне бы твои проблемы.........
Joined: 3/17/2002
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Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2002 11:08:00 PM
 
Indeed, issues of Psy Trance seem to be much more appealing than some stupid philosofical shit.
Joined: 1/29/2001
Posts: 485
Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2002 11:31:00 PM
 
Ksenia,
A chto esli ee svoi ideal ne naidesh??

Po skoliko bilo skazano chto ona nechevo bolishe chem mechta.

Vopros filosovskii..


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Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2002 11:41:00 PM
 
да какая это философия ...................

В здоровом теле здоровый ДУХ!


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... To Surf and to Die ...
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 10:20:00 AM
 
Xena,
So you are OK with the idea that your Prince wont be with you because you didnt want to be alone and couldnt wait
for him?
Joined: 11/1/2001
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 10:36:00 AM
 
"You should never settle".... ya v eto veruyu... in life... don't go for what's attainable... reach... as high as you can... if needed jump up... to reach it...
When I was in college I had an old car.... it was pretty beat up...and worst of all... it did not have automatic windows.... I had parking in the garage...and it was such a pain in the booty....to roll down windows every time I needed to enter or exit...in order to swipe my entrance card... my dream became to get a car.....that has automatic windows... well I ended up surpassing that requirement and buying my dream car.... something that probably cost more than I could afford... however... I am altimately happy with it.... driving it is pure excaaaaaaaaaaaaasy :-))))

My point is.... in life... sometimes its easier to give up on a dream... and just "live"....however if you do that... you won't be happy....
Joined: 11/15/2001
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 11:05:00 AM
 
мечтать никогда не плохо, а даже наоборот...главное не забывать о реальности))
Joined: 10/26/2001
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 11:15:00 AM
 
Скажу больше.
Мечтать не вредно, вредно не мечтать.
Добрый человек Ричард Бах высказался такую мысль в одной из своих книг:"Любая мечта даётся человеку с силами на её осуществление"
Одному даётся мечта о дорогой машине, другому о чём нить более возвышенном.
А иногда и просто, безотносительно, помечтать полезно. Ибо это ведёт с размышлениям и раздумьям и автоматиски к саморазвитию.
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 11:37:00 AM
 
Murzilka, vremenno....
settle "for less" temporarily (it is not really less, it is just different, it might be something that eventually will lead you to your dream), later you will encounter your dream in reality...
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 12:30:00 PM
 
yeah, sure...that is what all people do...settle

im not sure if i want to be someone people settle for
and i dont want to lie to somebody that she is my Dream Girl

would you?
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 12:45:00 PM
 
Murzilka
а как насчёт, boy of my dream?)))ты хочешь, чтобы кто-нибудь тебя так "сладко" обманул или ты предпочитаешь "горькую правду"
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 12:49:00 PM
 
Zachem obmanivat'....mozhno prosto skazat' ti ne moi ideal, no mne s toboy khorosho i vsyo, esli s etim chelovekom lutshe chem bez neyo/nego...
I did not think you were talking about marriage, marriage is more complicated...I would not get married to somebody just because
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 12:49:00 PM
 
Murzilka, I would not rush to such conclusions, a lot of people get married because they fall in love and it feels right
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 12:54:00 PM
 
Ma/\bIIII
я согласна)))
но ..к примеру, тебе предлагают выйти замуж и говорят:" Ты не девушка моей мечты, но ты мне нравишься и нам с тобой будет хорошо в браке" Это тоже как то не очень звучит((( и невольно напрашивается вопрос, "А что будет, если ты встретишь её/его из твоей мечты?" А вообще, это конечно сложно и мечты у всех разные на этот счёт.
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 1:02:00 PM
 
Love and Marriage
Love and Marriage
Go together like horse and carriage
This, I tell you brother...
You can't have one without A Ather:)))

Mary (teska), vsyo individualno konechno, no mne kazhetsa tot kto podsoznatelno ili zhe soznatelno ischet i gotov na lubov, ne viydet zamuzh/zhenitsa po takomu predlozheniyu...Te kto deystvitelno khotyat lubvi eyo nakhodyat...
In any event, there is something I call "feels right"...this feeling of "rightness" is when you KNOW if you love somebody...
Another thing I believe important, is trying not to get married very early, because people don't often know what they want and who they are...later on, the feeling of "KNOW" will be much stronger
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2002 1:13:00 PM
 
Ma/\bIIII
да, с возростом у людей больше опыта, и в какой то мере больше знания самого себя. Но не снимай со счетов интуицию и ,опять же, индивидуальный подход к каждому человеку. Ведь есть , так называемые, "младенцы" и по жизни, которые остаются ими до старости. Потом находясь долгое время с одним и тем же человеком, даёт возможность взаимного обмена "информацией",что ведет к большему взаимопониманию, и идейного роста синхронно обоих сторон.
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Posted on Tuesday, March 19, 2002 5:04:00 PM
 
mda....Ksuysh' ty menya pugaesh... byt' s chelovekom tol'ko iz za togo chto by ne byt' odnim.... nonsense....
Imei druzei....vstrechaisya....vluyblyasya i razluyblivai...probui derzai... no ne ostanavlivaisya.... a ved' kogda ty s chelovekom tol'ko iz za togo chto by ne byt' odnoi...ty perestaesh idti vpered...on tebya tuda ne tolkaet...da i samoi net zhelanniya bezhat'....
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Posted on Tuesday, March 19, 2002 5:15:00 PM
 
nu tut drugoi vopros prixodet.... chto takoe ideal ? Mozhno li ego opisat' ispol'zuya slova... kartinki... ved' ideal... vse vremya po idee menyatsya, ved' i chelovek menyaetsya...

Murzilka, devushka tvoei mechty eto real girl...ili someone u saw on tv etc... Prosto ... my ideal at 16 is not my ideal now :-)
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Posted on Tuesday, March 19, 2002 5:33:00 PM
 
Хотел много чего написать, но передумал. Хочу сказать одно.
Ни когда не говорите так как посоветовала Малыш...мол ты не девушка моей мечты, но нам будет хорошо и т.д...
Это очень жестоко. Великолепное средство поднять себе настроение в грусный момент и унизить человека на всю жизнь. У человека будет действительно настояшая рана, не от того что мол машинку не купил.
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